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Hey You Asked: Advice For A Transitioning Naturalista

Dear PBG,

                I am 24 yrs old and have never had the interest or desire to transition to natural hair until now. My hair was falling out in patches and the breakage was unbearable.  I cut my hair in May and I haven’t had a perm since February. I have been researching how to transition to natural hair but everywhere I look someone is talking about THE BIG CHOP, weaves or wigs. I need your help!!!! Please let me know what I can do with my hair to make this transition without THE BIG CHOP or weaves. I don’t mind braids but I would love to wear my hair out and enjoy it while I make this healthy transition. Please give me any advice you can as far as products I can use and easy hairstyles. I refuse to do THE BIG CHOP.  My hair and I would go into shock, so any advice, tips, forums or links you can tell me about would be great.

 

 Thank You,

Natural Hair Crybaby

 

Hey Naturalista! Don’t cry. It’s not as difficult as you think it is.

First off, I think the reason that people recommend the Big Chop over transitioning is because hanging on to permed ends isn’t the best choice when going natural. The “line of demarcation” is where your fresh natural texture new growth meets your permed hair:

source: www.antihairslave.com

That is where your hair is weakest when you’re growing your hair out and it is very susceptible to breakage. In reality, there is no real reason to hang on to permed ends if you’re going to stop using relaxers. But, I know that we tend to want to hang on to our length. Believe me, I know. I transitioned for a year before I just gave up and chopped. That Length Struggle be REAL for Black girls! LOL! But that doesn’t mean you can’t hold on to your length while you grown your hair out. It just means you have to be very careful. Minimal heat and minimal manipulation and what I like to call “mini chops”. “Mini chops” are when you get a little bit of the perm cut out every few months until it’s all gone. That way you will save yourself and your hair from “shock”. LOL…when I read that part of your letter I laughed out loud…Hair grows back! I promise! LOL!  Since you don’t mind braids, those would be a perfect protective style for you.

My friend Kellie held on to her permed ends for a long time, so when I was doing her hair through her transition time, the styles that worked best were roller/rod sets and bantu knot-outs. You can find tutorials for these very simple styles on Youtube. Once we cut off Kellie’s permed hair, her curls POPPED like crazy and her hair seemed to grow faster than before and she was just more satisfied with her hair. Eventually you will too, so don’t fret.

As for products, I am a big fan of Oyin Handmade products (burnt sugar pomade, juices n’ berries moisturizing spray)  and Shea Moisture products (deep treatment masque, curl & style milk) for styling. My favorite shampoo is Dr.Bronner’s All-In-One Peppermint Soap and my favorite conditioner is Tresseme Naturals for curly hair. I use EcoStyler Olive Oil or Aragan Oil Gels exclusively and Lottabody Olive Oil Styling Foam for roller and rod sets. I use Giovanni Direct Leave-In Conditioner exclusively now after starting out with Cantu Shea Butter Leave In last year. My favorite oils are extra virgin coconut oil, extra virgin olive oil and apricot oil. In winter when I prefer something heavier I use avocado butter or castor oil.

Check out these blogs/forums for more advice on transitioning and caring for your natural hair:

Curly Nikki

Back To Curly

 

 

(I’ll add more later, but these are the ones I read regularly).

And while I don’t always post a lot on technique and care for natural hair, I tend to write a lot about attitudes and experiences with natural hair. Click on that tag at the top of my post to check out some of it.

I hope this helps and feel free to ask any other questions you have!

 

Dedicated Readers, any additional advice for this transitioning Naturalista? Feel free to drop links and tips in the comment section. Thanks!

 

~pbg

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Naturalista Meet-Up: My Very First Visit To The Oyin Handmade Store

Last Saturday, my good friend and brand new Naturalista Lauren of Life of A Libra and I went up the road a ways to the city of Baltimore for a Natural Hair Meet-Up. The meet-up was organized by some ladies in Maryland that are members of the Baltimore Natural Hair Meet-Up group and the CurlyNikki Forums. I’m not a member of either (well, I’m on the CurlyNikki forums now, as ThePBG), but I found out the meet-up from my friend Yonna. The meet-up was held at the Oyin Handmade store in Baltimore. Yonna works there and invited me to come. I jumped at the chance to visit the Oyin store! I was so excited that I got to go and check out the place where some of my favorite natural hair products are thought up and made!

I’ve been a fan of the Oyin Handmade products since before I took my locs down. The products are all natural and made with love. What’s not to like?? I also feel great about supporting a Black family business with my few lil’ dollars, especially since I know that products are top-notch. In addition to picking up a few of my staple products, I got to meet a lot of beautiful Naturalistas and talk hair all afternoon. It was a lovely gathering! Here are a few pics:

Yonna was a great saleswoman/hostess.

Naturalistas sampling products & talking about them.

Checking out more of the Oyin Handmade goodness.

Beautiful Natualistas showing Oyin Handmade products some love.

Product on the shelves at Oyin. Two of my favorites! Burnt Sugar Pomade and Shine n' Define!

Here I am with Alex of www.thegoodhairblog.com. She's such a beauty.

All giddy with my bag of Oyin Handmade goodies.

Group pic! All gorgeous Naturalistas!

The Oyin Handmade Shop is located at 2103 N.Charles Street, Baltimore, MD. It's open on Saturdays only, from 12pm-7pm

We had a blast and I’m so glad I went. Special thanks to Lauren for coming and letting me ride up to Baltimore with her and to the ladies of the CurlyNikki Forums for putting together such a great event. All those beautiful ladies with gorgeous natural hair. It was certainly a day to remember.

Just in case you’re wondering what products I bought: I got the Shine n’ Define, a bottle of Hair Dew, some Honey Water hydrating body mist, a very cool journal for me and a “I Love My Hair” t-shirt for my daughter.

 

Do you use any of the Oyin Handmade products? If so, which ones are your favorites? If not, check them out and pick up a sample pack. I guarantee there will be something that you love.

 

~pbg

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“Beauty In Diversity”: Something’s Missing

The [black] [woman] Internet is all a’buzz over the new Carol’s Daughter ad campaign “Beauty In Diversity”:

“Amidst of working on new albums, singers Solange Knowles and Cassie team up with Victoria’s Secret model, Selita Ebanks to become the faces of the new Carol’s Daughter multiracial campaign. The beauties can be seen gracing the cover of WWD Style magazine above the caption: Beauty in Diversity.

Lisa Price, founder of the revolutionary hair and skin care line, designed the new campaign ad to reflect the recent demographic shift reported by the U.S. Census. The nationalities of each of the new Carol’s Daughter spokeswomen – Cassie (African American, Mexican and Filipina), Selita (Native American, Irish and African-American), and Solange (African American and French Creole) – directly parallel Census figures showing at least 9 million people who identify themselves as bi- or multi-racial.

Ebanks says, “Carol’s Daughter doesn’t have just one direct demographic. Solange’s hair is a different texture than mine; so is Cassie’s. Our skin and body types are different. Today, people are blended, and I think the three of us are a prime example. Women in my family range from vanilla to the deepest chocolate.”

Steve Stoute, lead investor and chairman of Carol’s Daughter, says the brand is simply mirroring the new diverse America,“What we’re doing now is moving into a polyethnic space. We want to be the first beauty brand that truly captures the beauty of the tapestry of skin types in America. When I say polyethnic, I mean women who are made up of several ethnicities. If you ask them what they are, they’re going to use a lot of different words to describe themselves.”

Jada Pinkett and Mary J. Blige are also longtime supporters and investors of the famed product.

“They will serve as cultural ambassadors in bringing forth this acceptance that the definition of beauty is now colorless. There are no longer boxes of white, black, Latina, Asian. More and more women are checking the other box, they share the vision and embody the messaging in their attitude, appearance, projects and core values,” he added.”

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Ok, let’s keep the thangs Dirty and Pretty right now, shall we?  Some truth needs to be told. I see too many people (most notably, on the Carol’s Daughter Facebook page) making this into a “light-skin vs. dark-skin” issue when it is SO not that.

While I applaud the forward thinking and efforts on the part of the good folks at Carol’s Daughter, I think they missed the mark with this campaign.

Carol’s Daughter is a brand of hair and beauty products that is mostly used African-American women. This has been the case since its inception, so let’s deal from that point. They know this because these women, while “mixed”, are heavily entrenched in African-American culture: Selita Ebanks was recently in one of the most anticipated and talked about music videos from very notable hip-hop star Kanye West. Cassie does “something” in the world of Diddy and Solange is a singer/songwriter and Beyonce’s little sister. So let’s not pretend that this wasn’t taken into account when picking these women as spokesmodels.

They’re all beautiful women, but in my opinion, they don’t adequately represent the diversity in beauty of American women and certainly not the diversity in beauty of Black women. And NOT because they are all fair-skinned.

Beautiful Black women come in all shapes, sizes, hues and present their femaleness in different ways and this ad campaign completely ignores this truth.

Black women look like this:

And this:

And this:

 

And EVEN this:

A plus sized woman. An older woman. A woman with locs. A woman that doesn’t present “traditionally feminine”. They are all beautiful women yet I don’t see any of these kinds of beauty represented in this ad. In their new ad campaign, Carol’s Daughter presented what amounts to one standard of beauty and claimed it to be “diversity” and that simply is not true. The fact that they had to break down the “polyethnicities” of these women further tells me that they’re REACHING for diversity. If everything didn’t look so much the same, no explanations would be necessary.

Too many kinds of beauty were left out of this “Beauty in Diversity ad campaign and for me, it totally negates the effort. I’m beyond unimpressed. I think that if they were going to target Black women (which they so obviously did, despite Black women not being the only kind of beauty in America), they could’ve done a much better job.

 

 

~pbg

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Product Review: HANA Air Premiere Hair Dryer from Misikko

About a week ago, I was contacted by John D. of Misikko Marketing and asked if I would like to review one of their hair dryers. I had to pause and think before accepting the offer because I don’t use heat on my hair often. I’m scared to death of heat damage! But I figured that this could be an opportune time to give a little advice on how you can blow dry your afro-textured hair without killing it with heat. So I wrote John back and told him I’d do the review.

John sent me their “Premium Hair Dryer”,HANA Air Premiere Hair Dryer, “a brand new Italian design”. From the misikko.com website:

HANA Salon presents the powerful HANAair hair dryer. This dryer has been Salon tested and Salon recommended since its inception. Inspired by Italian design, the combination of HANAair‘s strongest AC motor along with its tourmaline lined ceramic heater will dry your hair up to 60% faster maintaining natural shine while promoting healthy luxurious hair.

Hana Salon Air Hair Dryer Features:

  • Ion Technology- condition hair & reduces static electricity
  • Tourmaline & Titanium Oxide Technology- natural ions promote healthier hair
  • Silver Nanotechnology- for antibacterial Protection
  • Scratch Resistant Shell with black metallico finish adds durability and is easy to clean
  • Long life motor with low noise
  • Gyroscopically balanced for easy handling
  • Fiberglass concentrator
  • Italian Design

 

After a couple of days, I got this beautiful package in the mail:

Inside were all these goodies:

Emery boards, hand sanitizer, a stuffed monkey, a little comb-thingy of some sort, Paul Mitchell Shampoo One, Keratin Complex Clarifying Shampoo, a sample bottle of Hana Shine Shield and the HANA Air Premiere Hair Dryer. Some potpourri too! John D. included a very nice hand-written note as well. Such a lovely personal touch.

Since I just shampoo’d my hair last Thursday, it wasn’t time to do it again so I just did a quick co-wash/leave-in/seal routine with the products below:

Aussie Sydney Smooth Conditioner, Cantu Leave-In Conditioning Repair Cream, NOW Apricot Oil

 

Me in the various post co-wash stages: t-shirt drying, air drying, detangled and sectioned for blow drying.

Then it was time to get into the blow-out:

I had to use my pick attachment because my afro requires such. Mmmhmm.

The HANA Air Premiere Hair Dryer has a sleek design and is light weight, but like a lot of other hand held dryers, the control buttons are located on the handle. I kept turning the dryer on and off while I was using it. It has a VERY long cord, so I can see this being great for a professional stylist in a salon. There are two fan speeds and force of the air flow is strong and even stronger on the high setting. There are three heat settings (hot, warm and a cold shot), so you have the option of a warm or cool blow dry with this dryer if you don’t like to use high heat, like me. For the sake of comparison, I used high heat on one side of my hair and the cool setting on the other:

Used high heat on the left, cool setting on the right.

As you can see, the cool setting didn’t stretch my hair as much, but it did get it dry. The high heat side was stretched out a lot, but the dryer didn’t generate so much heat that I could see smoke. To me, that’s a good thing. I know that extreme heat is not good for my fragile Type 4 afro-textured hair. Please use a heat protectant whenever you apply any kind of heat to your hair, whether it be with a handheld blow dryer, a bonnet dryer, straightening comb, flat iron or other hair straighteners. Grapeseed oil is a natural oil that works well as a heat protectant, and you can also try the HANA Shine Shield Thermal Protectant sold on the Misikko website as well. If you don’t protect your hair, you run the risk of irreparable heat damage. Your curl won’t curl all the way back over anymore! I love my kinks and coils too much for that, so I don’t even use heat on my hair more than once a month and I never use a flat iron or straightening comb.

Here’s my hair all blown out:

Cousin It flow...

Overall, I’d say that the HANA Premiere Hair Dryer is a decent blow dryer. In my opinion, it’s not an exceptional hair dryer, but a very good one. It’s as good as the two others that I own and it  gets the job done. It definitely dried my hair very fast. I don’t think I’d recommend it to anybody besides a professional stylist who does hair all day everyday, given that this hair dryer retails for $314.99. It’s on sale for $194.99 now. A bit rich for my blood, but a great investment for a pro.

Thanks again to John at Misikko Marketing for providing this great hair dryer for me to review and I hope all my sister Naturalistas go forth in great care when using heat on their tresses.

 

~pbg

 

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