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Naturalista Meet-Up: My Very First Visit To The Oyin Handmade Store

Last Saturday, my good friend and brand new Naturalista Lauren of Life of A Libra and I went up the road a ways to the city of Baltimore for a Natural Hair Meet-Up. The meet-up was organized by some ladies in Maryland that are members of the Baltimore Natural Hair Meet-Up group and the CurlyNikki Forums. I’m not a member of either (well, I’m on the CurlyNikki forums now, as ThePBG), but I found out the meet-up from my friend Yonna. The meet-up was held at the Oyin Handmade store in Baltimore. Yonna works there and invited me to come. I jumped at the chance to visit the Oyin store! I was so excited that I got to go and check out the place where some of my favorite natural hair products are thought up and made!

I’ve been a fan of the Oyin Handmade products since before I took my locs down. The products are all natural and made with love. What’s not to like?? I also feel great about supporting a Black family business with my few lil’ dollars, especially since I know that products are top-notch. In addition to picking up a few of my staple products, I got to meet a lot of beautiful Naturalistas and talk hair all afternoon. It was a lovely gathering! Here are a few pics:

Yonna was a great saleswoman/hostess.

Naturalistas sampling products & talking about them.

Checking out more of the Oyin Handmade goodness.

Beautiful Natualistas showing Oyin Handmade products some love.

Product on the shelves at Oyin. Two of my favorites! Burnt Sugar Pomade and Shine n' Define!

Here I am with Alex of www.thegoodhairblog.com. She's such a beauty.

All giddy with my bag of Oyin Handmade goodies.

Group pic! All gorgeous Naturalistas!

The Oyin Handmade Shop is located at 2103 N.Charles Street, Baltimore, MD. It's open on Saturdays only, from 12pm-7pm

We had a blast and I’m so glad I went. Special thanks to Lauren for coming and letting me ride up to Baltimore with her and to the ladies of the CurlyNikki Forums for putting together such a great event. All those beautiful ladies with gorgeous natural hair. It was certainly a day to remember.

Just in case you’re wondering what products I bought: I got the Shine n’ Define, a bottle of Hair Dew, some Honey Water hydrating body mist, a very cool journal for me and a “I Love My Hair” t-shirt for my daughter.

 

Do you use any of the Oyin Handmade products? If so, which ones are your favorites? If not, check them out and pick up a sample pack. I guarantee there will be something that you love.

 

~pbg

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Happy Black Girl Day: A Review of “Running: AMOK”, A Musical Stage Play by Liberated Muse Productions

Last night, thanks to the generosity of my good friends Liz and Jamal, I had the opportunity to attend a performance of “Running: AMOK”, a musical stage play by Liberated Muse Productions.

 

The performance was held at The Corner Store Gallery, an art space on Capitol Hill here in DC. The play was written, directed and produced by Khadijah Ali-Coleman, a Black woman playwright, author and lyricist located in the DC area. Khadijah is co-founder of Liberated Muse Productions and the Capitol Hip-Hop Soul Festival. I can say with all honesty that going in with absolutely no prior knowledge of what this play was about I was absolutely blown away. This play tackles what I’ve always considered to be one the most controversial topics for Black women: when we admit that motherhood is hard and damn near drives us over the edge.

The cast includes :

  • Quiniece as “LaChelle”
  • Rayona L. Young (my VERY good girlfriend)  as “Nina”
  • Nia Simmons as “Lyn” (Nina’s Cousin/Business Manager)
  • Deja Belle as “Camille”
  • Lyn Artope as “Benny” (Camille’s mom)
  • Colette Williams as “Mama Belle”

 

“Running: AMOK” tells the story of three creative women who find themselves pregnant in the middle of their careers and how each one deals with her new reality. The play opens with each of the women telling the people closest to them about their pregnancies. One woman, LaChelle, a singer and single, is ecstatic about her pending motherhood and wastes no time telling all her friends and family the good news. Camille, an author living at home with her parents, seems ambivalent but confident, much to her mother, Benny’s chagrin. Nina, a high-profile fashion designer, tells her cousin/manager Lyn that she plans on getting an abortion, but doesn’t go through with it.

The three women eventually meet in the waiting room of a psychiatrist, nine months post-partum. Motherhood is nothing what any of them imagined. LaChelle’s boyfriend left her right before her baby was  born and she lost her singing gig, Camille’s writing contracts are drying up and Nina has no time to devout to her art, she’s overwhelmed by the demands of mothering AND her husband. Each of these women are their own overheated pots about to boil over and explode. The wise Mama Belle, an eccentric mother of 3 grown children, grandmother of one, singer, wife and business owner shows up and drops pearls of wisdom on the new moms in that waiting room that none of them expected to receive.

What impressed me the most about this play is each of these characters are like women all of us know and they actually talk about the realities of being a mother and still wanting to “be” at the same time. Too often, women are told that they must become some “Martyr of Motherhood” and die in spirit in order to raise a child successfully. We’re shamed by our family and community when we admit to not taking well to motherhood right away or even when we hit a wall and become frustrated and confused by our children. “Running: AMOK” adresses these points and more. As a mother and creative woman, I could relate to so much of what each of the characters was going through. It felt good to finally have these things said out in the open. And I must say that I was so glad that “Running: AMOK” showed these Black women seeking THERAPY!! Chasing wellness and happiness!

The play was funny, poignant, and emotional. It is extremely well-written and you definitely hear Khadijah telling her own very personal story as a mom and creative woman through the dialogue.  The songs were great and the actors/singers were all amazing, across the board. I can definitely see this small community production growing and going above and beyond what anybody in the audience could realize. I am so glad I was able to attend such an awesome performance.

Liz, me & our friend Rayona, who played "Nina" in the play "Running: AMOK"

 

If you are in the DC Metro Area over the next few days, please make your way to a performance of Running: AMOK. Click here for more information on this play and how to purchase tickets.

 

 

~pbg

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Requiem For A Bright Star: R.I.P. Lorenzo Paige, aka “Putt”.

 

 

This is my friend Lorenzo Paige, aka “Putt”. He and I went to Scott Montgomery Elementary School, Shaw Junior High School and Dunbar Senior High School together back in the 1980s and 1990s,  all in the Shaw neighborhood of NW DC. When we were all growing up together around the way, Putt was the boy who stuck up for me when the other kids teased me for being short, skinny and “nerdy”. He claimed me as “Lil’ Sis”. He always looked out for me. I can remember how he’d always have a hug and a kind word and bright smile on his face. He was one of the smartest kids in school and easy going. He was everybody’s friend. We were in marching band together and even took a class together in high school. When my class had our 10 year reunion in 2001, Putt was the photographer for our event. This picture is how Putt showed up for his 20th High School reunion last year. Everybody thought it was HILARIOUS! He came in loud, partying hard and got everything started. Bright and happy…the life of the party as usual.

Nobody knew he had been recently diagnosed with pancreatic cancer until he told us all via Facebook. He went on to document his illness and treatment through Facebook notes to all of us that knew and loved him. He recounted everything his doctors said, how the meds made him feel and even the complications and the fact that the cancer had metastasized. While we prayed for him, he prayed for us. Putt wrote this in a note on March 16 after a particularly grueling chemo session:

Thank you all again for your prayers and words of inspiration. I really do appreciate them. I pray for you all also and the problems that you are going through because we all have some type of problem.

Putt died this morning. I’m am crying over the loss of my friend right now. I’m crying hard. One of the brightest lights of my childhood went out today and it hurts so much more than I thought it would. I’m so sad, but I’m so glad I got to party with him that last time at his class reunion. I’m glad that I got to know him in my lifetime. I consider it an honor.  He was one of the smartest and caring people I’ve known in my life. I’m going to miss him. Condolences to his entire family and to the neighborhood and school family as well.  Godspeed to his spirit as he leaves behind the pain and enters into everlasting spiritual peace.

 

~pbg

 

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Living For The Weekend: Natural Hair Expo and A Spa Party

I haven’t posted too much this week, but I just wanted to end the week on Dirty Pretty Thangs by informing all my DC area people of two events I’m excited to be attending this weekend.

First, DC’s 6th Annual Love, Locs and Natural Hair Expo presented by Asaze Natural Hair will be held tomorrow.

Here’s some info I got from DC Natural Hair Examiner, Laquita Thomas-Banks:

DC’s 6th Annual Love, Locs and Natural Hair Expo presented by Asaze Natural Hair will be held on Saturday, April 16, 2011 from 11 am to 7 pm at the Mary Virginia Merrick Center, located on 4275 Sixth Street, SE Washington, DC (across from the parking lot of Saint Thomas Moore Church). The expo entry fee is $10, which covers all workshops, classes, and a fabulous hair show.

Click here for the full article and all the information on what I hope will be an incredible natural hair event in DC.

I was invited to a Spa Party being hosted by Afiya4You on Sunday:

Join us Sunday April 17th for our Love, Laugh, Live Spa Party in Silver Spring, MD. You’ll be able to receive mini facials, hand treatments, win prizes and purchase products at a special spa discount.

I’m looking forward to joining the ladies of Afiya4You this coming Sunday for an afternoon of FREE pampering and discounted shopping of their fabulous natural products (yes, I’ve already sampled a few!) Click the picture for more details.

The weather promises to be nice and I look forward to getting out and enjoying some of what my city has to offer to local Naturalistas.

What’s going on in your world this weekend??

 

~pbg

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